“Physical forwardness as intellectual high-wire act: the pleasure not of pleasure but of performance and revenge against the retainer, the flute, the stack of expectations. Sex as rebellion against the way things should be. [Sound familiar? It is. No story on Earth is more common.]”
–Lauren Groff, Fates and Furies
dude that whole “wait til you graduate and real life starts if you think things are hard now” line of reasoning is not tru at all and its also really dangerous bc i cant tell you how many times i thought “its not getting any better its only gonna get worse” but it has actually not been true? since i graduated? i have had more time? yeah im stressed over money, but i have been since i knew what money was and that i was expensive by existing? like when i was four or five? and definitely all through college. now im stressed about money but i have like twice as much time for activities so its much better is my thesis. its better when you are done, even if you get a minimum wage job its still better than working and going to school? cause you can leave it behind at work and school never stops not even in your dreams?
Hayley Macmillen, from “What I Learned From No-Orgasm Sex” via Refinery29 (via bedsider)
I really like this article!
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